What does being a woman today mean?

From Miranda Patterson, NBC News creative director

In beginning to think about A Woman's Nation, Maria Shriver's special report about the state of women today, I asked the women in my department, of all ages and career points, to finish this sentence: "Being a woman today means..."

The responses I got back from this small group were so intriguing that I cast a wider net. (I asked two friends, and they asked two friends, and...) Wonderful answers came flowing back, along with requests to hear what other women were saying. I'd like to share some of my favorites, and would love to hear your own thoughts.

Being a woman today means....

...opening your own doors.

...balancing choice with obligation.

...the world is yours...if you're bold enough to take it.

...Not expecting a thank you. You do something because either it's expected of you, 'cause no one else will, or you just want to.

...the sky is the limit. I can walk on the moon (if they ever send anybody there again), run for president, become one of the richest people on earth - whatever the imagination conjures up is within our grasp...except of course - equal pay.

...working in a man's world, while still living in a woman's world

...having to establish that you DO have a brain and you CAN work a camera with the best of them, even if you are wearing high-heeled boots.

Being a woman sometimes means having the responsibility without the authority.

Being a woman today means going beyond what your mother thought was possible.

...feeling confident that I can do anything, be anything---until some guy exerts his male privilege when I least expect it.

…tirelessly juggling multiple jobs to serve many constituencies—family, employees, clients, community—with as much energy, love and grace as one can muster.

I'd love to hear what you have to say, so please finish the sentence: Being a woman today means....


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...I can run my own business, be an excellent wife and doggy mom without feeling pressure to have kids right now. Yet, I know that when if and when I do have kids, I will still be able to run my business and have it all (with lots of help!)

Catherine Wood Hill, http://www.lagrandedame.com "Making Skinny Women Jealous"

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Reply#1 - Thu Oct 15, 2009 6:06 PM EDT
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....it's never too late to persue your dreams if you dare to dream out loud.

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Reply#2 - Fri Oct 16, 2009 10:01 AM EDT

Being a woman today means that I'm going to be one till the day I die. I'll also be a thousand other titles. You wear many hats being a mom. First and foremost is a "woman". After that it depends on what direction I'm going in. Cook, maid, carpool driver, fund raising cupcake baker, disciplinarian, accountant, referee, nurturer, tutor, project helper, judge, and even a nurse. And as most of you mom's know, that's the short version of the list!! Only lately have I been lucky enough to also be a "Calgon take me away" woman! (and it's been fabulous!)

I don't see a man or woman's soul as being different from each others. Our bodies do not leave this earth when we die. The differences that define us as either man or woman are all physical. Everything except our soul gets left behind.

    Reply#3 - Mon Oct 19, 2009 3:59 AM EDT
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