Does housework get you in the mood?

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Are you turned on by housework?

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Is it possible doing a load of laundry can lead to a romp in the bedroom? It seems the more housework a married couple partakes in, the more sex they have, according to a study by the Journal of Family Issues. While there has been previous research that wives are more attracted to men who share domestic duties, this is the first study that equates doing dishes with bedroom activities.

In a new WSJ article, the author interviewed several couples who offered some explanations: “That housework may be a proxy for a general willingness to invest in shared interests, a symbol of commitment to home and hearth ... It's also possible that one reward of doing chores — a serene, well-tended home —can be conducive to intimacy.”

Several surveys suggest the key to a happy marriage is shared housework, so this shouldn’t be too much of a stretch. But the question remains whether sweating it in the kitchen really does get spouses excited (are they inhaling Lysol? Enchanted by the Swiffer?). What do you think? Ever been seduced by chores?


Related: Why a clean kitchen makes for hot foreplay

Chores for two: Why men don't pitch in

Video: More men doing the housework

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i agree! and it all finally makes sense... my hubby gets it 4 to 5 times a week from me, and i'm sure it is because i do less housework (and the house is so clean and organized) that i have more time to relax and enjoy my family. 12 years in, and it works for us!

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Reply#1 - Wed Oct 21, 2009 2:31 PM EDT

Agreed. I find housework very stressful - and I do most of it. However, when he does help, it is a HUGE relief for me. :-D

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Reply#2 - Wed Oct 21, 2009 3:46 PM EDT

Yes, it gets me in the mood....to rest and sleep! LOL

But no, I wouldn't know, the man I used to be married to never lifted a finger because it was "women's work". Won't be getting married again anytime soon..

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Reply#3 - Wed Oct 21, 2009 4:39 PM EDT

The only thing housework puts me in the mood for is to stop doing housework. If I have to do housework, I'm going to be cranky and want to be left alone!

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Reply#4 - Thu Oct 22, 2009 8:39 AM EDT
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