Can a marriage survive an affair?

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Can a marriage survive an affair?

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  • 77633
    No. It destroys the foundation of trust that is the basis of any good marriage.
    28%
  • 77634
    Yes. It's possible to save the marriage, but it takes a lot of tears, work and forgiveness.
    29%
  • 77635
    Possibly. I'm skeptical, but I think it depends on too many factors unique to each marriage to make a snap judgment.
    43%

VoteTotal Votes: 750

With the Tiger Woods scandal still in the news many wonder if a marriage can survive an affair. For every woman or man who’s left a relationship, there’s another who’s decided to stay and work it out. What do you think? Is it possible for a marriage to survive?

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Total of 750 votes - click on the "Display Comments" bar below to sort comments

27.7%
No. It destroys the foundation of trust that is the basis of any good marriage.
208 votes
28.9%
Yes. It's possible to save the marriage, but it takes a lot of tears, work and forgiveness.
217 votes
43.3%
Possibly. I'm skeptical, but I think it depends on too many factors unique to each marriage to make a snap judgment.
325 votes
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No. It destroys the foundation of trust that is the basis of any good marriage.

It alls depends on the who the couple. For some once trust has been violated, it is impossible to trust that person again.

  • 1 vote
 - 12:30 pm EST on Thu Jan 7, 2010
Yes. It's possible to save the marriage, but it takes a lot of tears, work and forgiveness.

I think cheating is most painful, It breaks the trust you feel for your mate. If you truly love each other, make it work.

     - 1:04 pm EST on Thu Jan 7, 2010
    Possibly. I'm skeptical, but I think it depends on too many factors unique to each marriage to make a snap judgment.

    My own marriage did not. Once that happens there is no trust. I could not go on without that.

       - jamib
       - 1:38 pm EST on Thu Jan 7, 2010
      Possibly. I'm skeptical, but I think it depends on too many factors unique to each marriage to make a snap judgment.

      It totally depends on the marriage. Most people don't have many experiences to choose from either.

         - 8:22 pm EST on Fri Jan 8, 2010
        No. It destroys the foundation of trust that is the basis of any good marriage.

        No! You simply must divorce and clear out the cheating bastard's bank account!

        • 1 vote
         - 5:14 am EST on Sat Jan 9, 2010
        Yes. It's possible to save the marriage, but it takes a lot of tears, work and forgiveness.

        TRUST ISSUES WILL ALWAYS EXIST! AND THIS SHOULD NOT HAPPEN, EVER, IF YOU STOP AND THINK AHEAD OF WHAT YOU HAVE TO LOSE!

           - 8:55 am EST on Mon Nov 8, 2010

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