Mommy confessions: Another snow day? Now what?

For many people living on the East Coast, especially the Northeast and Mid-Atlantic states, kids are home for a snow day -- or in the case of states like Virginia and Maryland -- they're home again for what's becoming a snow week! Parents are trying to juggle work, keeping their snowbound kids happy and all the usual stuff that comes with that. When playing in the snow and art projects start to get old, the next step is usually TV or computer games, but when they even get bored of the electronics, what's next?

Share your tricks, or sneaky little secrets (total honesty here), for keeping a happy household when everyone's starting to climb the walls.

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You give your kids Ambien???!!!! You should be reported to the police or CPS!!!!

    Reply#2 - Thu Feb 11, 2010 8:52 AM EST

    1 deleted, Jane-1620262 claiming they sneak Ambien into their children's breakfast in their first post on TODAYMoms.

    Account quarantined while we look into policy.

      #2.1 - Thu Feb 11, 2010 12:54 PM EST
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      OMG!!! Jane, Please STOP giving your kids ambien!!!! It has side effects. Goodle it and see for yourself.

      "severe allergic reaction can occur: rash, hives, swelling of the throat, hands, difficulty swallowing or breathing, halluncinations, memory problems, etc. You may be putting your kids' lives at RISK!!!

      Please get help!!!!

        Reply#3 - Thu Feb 11, 2010 9:14 AM EST

        So many things you can do when you have cabin fever! Right now is a good time to make Valentine cards, & what about making them for those snow bound elderly people who live around you? Or the closest nursing home. They would really treasure a card. Have story time several times a day rather than just once. Oh & I have music time once a day so just double up on days we are stuck in. So many things to do never enough time to do them in. All Children need the one on one, all need time w/an adult doing something that does not include electronic's! Movies are great for bigger kids during nap time but should not be used as a form of babysitting!

          Reply#4 - Thu Feb 11, 2010 10:29 AM EST

          Giving your kids ambien just seems so wrong!! Why do your kids need to be "calm"? Can't they be kids? Do you know ambien causes amnesia and memory problems?♠

          I personally love snow days! It give me a chance to relax with the kids! Yesterday we played outside in the snow for 2 hours! But besides that, we made our own checker pieces and my 11 year old taught my 5 year old to play checkers. We made hot chocolate, and they all helped cook dinner. We stayed in pajamas until about 1 PM. My husband and I worked from home, and we told the kids if they let us work then we would go play in the snow and cook (that is when the 11 year old taught the 5 year old checkers). I also have a child who has issues, but he was good also and played with his cars. He read 2 books to me yesterday.

          I find when I get nervous, they get nervous. If I stay calm and collected, they are calm.

          I am certainly not the best mom or the most perfect, but it would seem giving your children ambien is giving up. Try to find a teenager in your area to help you on those days if you feel overwhelmed.

            Reply#5 - Thu Feb 11, 2010 10:31 AM EST

            Jane, are you serious? What in the world is wrong with you??????

              Reply#6 - Thu Feb 11, 2010 10:57 AM EST

              Try playing board games as a family. It can be really fun and it is good quality time spent with your kids. Read books or work puzzles. Time just flies when your having fun. Instead of being upset and annoyed that your kids are missing school try to enjoy them. They will love the special attention and you might as well. Remember your kids are a big part of what you make them and they grow up so fast.

                Reply#7 - Thu Feb 11, 2010 11:00 AM EST

                We've had snow storm after snow storm since Dec. 19, our kids have missed several days of school due to inclement weather. My son, 7 and daughter 6 have enjoyed playing in the SNOW!!! They've gone sleigh riding, built a snow man, shovel paths, made a huge snowball and then jumped off it into the snow. They have had a blast!! This weekend I'm going to fill water bottles with colored waterr and let them "spray paint" the snow. They're anixous to get back to school on a regular schedule but until then, they'll have fun in the snow.

                  Reply#8 - Thu Feb 11, 2010 12:35 PM EST

                  Post deleted because I said they need to be reported? as well as MSN for allowing the post in the first place and not having sense enough to report it themselves? My account will be deleted and the post will still be reported.

                    Reply#9 - Thu Feb 11, 2010 12:59 PM EST

                    Why must parents these days always feel they have to 'entertain' their children. They are kids, they can play make-believe and entertain themselves, as we did when we were kids (without much t.v. and without internet/computer). Come on people! Let them figure it out on their own without mom and dad trying to think for them.

                      Reply#10 - Thu Feb 11, 2010 5:38 PM EST

                      It's not about always feeling a need to entertain our children, and imaginative, child-only play is great and should be encouraged. However, leaving the child to his own devices all day long will make for a lonely, bored, and frustrated child. A child can only entertain himself for so long until he begins to crave positive interaction with a parent.

                      What's necessary for an emotionally healthy child is a balance. Plenty of happy, creative, bonding time with the parents, and also a good amount of time alone or with other children to explore their abilities to be content playing alone.

                        #10.1 - Fri Feb 12, 2010 1:17 AM EST

                        Cara-439012...I'm not critizing, I just want to point out that kids who are already emotionally secure will be fine to go hours at a time without it. I realize that this would be unacceptable in today's world, but when I was a kid I spent my summers at my grandparent's house who still worked a full time jobs, and we would spend the entire day (starting at around age 6 on up) from the time we woke up until grandma got home taking care of ourselves, entertaining ourselves, solving our own problems. My parents would call in the evenings, but we were too busy playing with each other and kids in the neighborhood to talk to our parents...the only interaction we had with the grandparents was after it got too late for us to remain outside. Every one of us in my family and in that neighborhood are perfectly well adjusted adults.

                        All I'm saying is that if your kids are emotionally secure and know why you can't hold their hand while they're at home (aka talk to your children, le them know what's going on), they know and understand stranger-danger (and if mom and dad have to go to work, have a neighbor the kids can go to if something happens) the kids will be fine.

                          #10.2 - Sat Feb 13, 2010 7:24 PM EST
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                          I love snow days. I love having the time to spend with my kids. We usually start the day baking cookies, or something--having the oven on makes everyone feel warm a toasty. There are always cleaning jobs around the house that I don't seem to get to often enough. Snow days are perfect "catch up" days. Believe it or not, my kids enjoy helping me with these things. They spray the Windex and I wipe the windows, I pull out the furniture and they run the sweeper over the floor, we take down knick-knacks and dust them, etc. It is really not about what we are doing, it is more about the fact that we are doing it together and spending the time talking about things that are going on in their lives. Of course we play cards, they play in the snow, we watch a favorite movie together--all the usual snow day activities, but getting a few things off my plate while spending time with my kids is a win-win situation.

                            Reply#11 - Thu Feb 11, 2010 7:47 PM EST

                            My snow days the the grandchildren are the same I had with my mom when I was young. We all made breakfast together, cleaned up our rooms and toys, shoveled the front of the house and driveway, made snowmen and women, had snowball fights with the neighbors children, made hot chocolate and grilled cheese sandwiches, took hot baths and slipped into warm pajamas and after supper, we played board games and cards. If the snow days were more than two, we were taught crafts, put together model ships and planes, girls would learn to sew or knit. Our parents always keep us busy when we were not playing with our friends in the neighborhood. I do the same with my grandchildren and they love it, just like we did. It also helps out the parents when they have to work or catch up on their own relationships. It will be days that the children and parents will remember (take pictures and make an album).

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