Amy is right - more people can equal more love in a family, but it doesn't happen overnight and not without a lot of thoughtful decision-making and self-education about stepfamily dynamics. And, the notion of 'blending' is quickly becoming an outdated term as newer research continues to support the idea that 'blending' creates unrealistic expectations on everyone involved during a time of great transition. Hey Today Show, call me and I'll tell you everything I know about it!