When is it time to fire your child's pediatrician?

One of the longest doctor-patient relationships many of us have is with our kids’ pediatrician. From the time our little ones are born, we see these baby docs on a regular basis, so making sure we are comfortable with them is a must. But what happens if you aren’t happy with the care you are getting?

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Firing pediatricians is something that probably doesn’t happen often enough, says NBC's chief medical editor Dr. Nancy Snyderman, stressing that there is no reason not to leave a doctor you're unhappy with. However, be sure to have another physician lined up before making the end of your relationship official.

The most common reason people fire their pediatrician? When the doctor misses a diagnosis or the family loses faith in them. Other reasons to leave can include a doctor not answering or dismissing a patient’s questions, or not having adequate out-of-hours cover.

Before deciding on a new pediatrician, do your homework, and don't be afraid to rely on your gut, advises Snyderman. Also, remember to request for a copy of your medical records to give to your new doctor.

TODAY Moms readers shared some of their pediatrician break-up stories on our Facebook page.

Jasmine Peters writes:
My daughter had dark rings forming around her neck, so I took her into the doc. The doc told her that she was too fat. Knowing that my daughter was just getting past an eating disorder. I asked the doctor if that was appropriate language to express weight concerns to a child? She told me that she calls it like she sees it.

Joy McClure Fenton says:
When my daughter was 4 weeks old she had whooping cough and her doctor said it wasn't even though she was turning blue when coughing. Fired her right on the spot and had the attending if the ICU of the hospital become her doctor. My daughter almost died. She came to the hospital to apologize and we refused to see her.

Jaclyn Hawkins Doherty writes:
My daughter had horrendous diaper rash and the doctor said it was normal for weeks...turns out she had several infections, including strep, yeast and a skin infection. After I requested her doctor to transfer her records they called to ask why??!! We went in for a number of visits and they "overlooked" her infections each time.

Lauren Nowicki adds: 
Twice...two different states. Both times it was because the doctor was already out the door before I could ask questions...and the second one was always distracted!

Have you ever divorced your pediatrician? Tell us about it in the comments. 

NBC News chief medical editor Dr. Nancy Snyderman talks about what you should know before saying goodbye to your pediatrician, and suggests a list of questions parents should ask themselves first.

 

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Yep. Was nursing my oldest, he had a tummy bug. Dr advised me to pump and give him formula, that he may have developed a temporary allergy/sensitivity to my milk. So, baby didn't get the comfort he needed while sick, still threw up and I had the added stress of pumping on top of it. I did my own research and saw that while it is true that they can sometimes develop this when sick, it is no reason to discontinue nursing. Didn't go back there again. No way formula was any easier on his stomach, being made of cow's milk.

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Reply#1 - Mon Jan 23, 2012 11:03 AM EST

Doctors are NOT God, even though sometimes they act like it. Everyone deserves a second chance - even you!

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#1.1 - Mon Jan 23, 2012 2:49 PM EST

Wow, these are crazy stories. Guess I'm with an excellent pediatrician and group. Haven't had any problems yet, and the diagnosis has always been correct.

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#1.2 - Mon Jan 23, 2012 3:18 PM EST
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My daughter was a ten year IVF effort; while I was in labor, my pediatrician had been in the hospital and stopped in to check on us. During general conversation we talked about the road that had led us to that point; I mentioned that we'd opted out of any amnio or genetic testing and she commented that she'd done it with all of her kids because if there was something wrong, she wanted time to do something about it and not go ahead with the pregnancy. I remember clear as day looking at my husband and asking if I was affected by the drugs or if she'd really said that - while I'm in labor! (and she knew that I worked with kids with disabilities and Down Syndrome)

While in the hospital I had the nurse from hell. She kept trying to make me get up and walk - but due to my high blood pressure I wasn't supposed to be doing that. It was in my chart and she'd been told by the doctor, but she couldn't be swayed. I couldn't nurse due to a nuclear dye test and I had to constantly battle with this woman to get formula - in spite of my daughter screaming at the top of her little lungs.

When we went to the first baby check up appointment - the same nurse "greeted" us to go into the room. That was it. The pediatrician did the initial check on my baby at the hospital and that first check up out of the hospital and we were done.

I absolutely adore my current pediatrician - and so does my almost 6 year old daughter!

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Reply#2 - Mon Jan 23, 2012 11:17 AM EST

Lisa, I can relate. My husband and I were trying for a baby for almost 5 years, and I was just about to start fertility treatments when I got pregnant at 34 with our now 11 yr old perfectly healthy son. My ob-gyn was being very insistent about doing an amnio & I was equally insistent that I was not going to allow it. The risk of a miscarriage was too high & there was simply no way I was willing to risk the safety of my baby. If he had heard me & stopped pushing I might have stayed with him. But he just couldn't understand why I would be willing to take such a chance & was treating me like I was being stupid for not going along with it. I fired him, found a new doctor, and I'm still with her today. Love her.

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#2.1 - Mon Jan 23, 2012 1:40 PM EST
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I go to a 'practice' meaning there are at least 12 or 13 doctors my two boys see. I had decided before my first was born that I would WAIT on the MMR shot. Not decline it, just wait. I wanted to be sure there was no chance that either one of my children had any traits of autism.

One doctor insisted that my son be given the vaccine. I politely told him - I want to wait - just a few months until we are sure. He said "studies have shown its not the shot" I said "well if its not the shot then what is it?" his reply "We don't know" - "well there are thousands and thousands of parents who think its the shot, you don't know what causes it, I don't know what causes it - and right now - mom trumps doctor - we're waiting to give him the shot" He didn't like that response. Everytime he's on the rotation - we'll skip him. I can appreciate the many many years of schooling it took to become a doctor but just because you says so - doesn't mean you are the end all be all.

My son got the shot at his 3 year check up. All is well. I didn't then nor have I ever denied medical treatment for my child - for me waiting on the MMR shot is what I want for my children.

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Reply#3 - Mon Jan 23, 2012 11:59 AM EST

That's a bit selfish of you to ignorn medical research, putting your child and other children at risk of these horrible diseases, becuase you think you are "the end all be all."

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#3.1 - Mon Jan 23, 2012 12:53 PM EST

I understand your concern about the MMR vaccine but remember that the ONLY reason you are talking about this with your doctor is because ONE researcher LIED about his irresponsible and unscientific studies. Why would you believe the lies perpetrated by one dishonest researcher, and not believe the thousands of studies that have come after? I know your instincts are to protect your child and err on the side of caution, but considering the rise in measles deaths in the last few years you really need to consider the reality more dispassionately. Fact: autism strikes more boys than girls. Obviously more boys than girls are not getting the MMR vaccine, so something else is at play. Fact: autism is inherited. If a close family member has autism (sibling, twin) then the child is much more likely to develop autism (30-90%).

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#3.2 - Mon Jan 23, 2012 1:16 PM EST

I support your right as a parent to make decisions for your child's care, but your pediatrician would have been right to try and provide you with knowledge. Though not force his will on you!

There are risks with vaccinations but the argument saying Autism is a legitimate risk doesn't make it so. The one study published that did suggest a vaccination relationship has been rescinded, because it was a bad study for a number of reasons.

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#3.3 - Mon Jan 23, 2012 1:32 PM EST

I think the doctor shouldn't have forced his will on you either. Being that your son is 3 at the youngest, I think some of these posters need to back off of their criticism about your autism fears.

I personally was never afraid of the MMR, but with your son's age, you were right in the middle of the "vaccine=autism" argument. You had no idea that a researcher lied, and your fears were valid and mainstream at the time. You were not selfish, you were protecting your child with medical research that was considered valid by some AT THE TIME. Now we are aware that the researcher lied, but at the time you were making your decision, no one knew.

If your doctor would've come at you differently, who knows what you would've decided to do. But, he is YOUR son and you were doing what you thought was best for him. You were not the first or only mother to deny the vaccine at the time. I am glad that your son was eventually vaccinated, but I will not vilify you for making your decision when you son was an infant.

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#3.4 - Mon Jan 23, 2012 2:07 PM EST

my daughter fired her doctor after her 3 month old son experienced repeated seizures after his first MMR vaccine. the doctor refused to refer her to a pediatric neurologist, but we found one on our own. when the neurologist asked for the baby's medical records, my daughter found that the pediatrician had removed all traces of the baby's vaccines from the records before sending copies. the only way she could prove that he had the shots was from the insurance company's claims department records. then she fired him.

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#3.5 - Mon Jan 23, 2012 2:12 PM EST

ScienceChick, actually, you have your facts wrong about autism "striking" more boys than girls. Autism is a spectrum disorder and they are finding that because girls exhibit autistic traits differently (ie; girls are generally more verbal and autistic girls tend to be on the more verbal side, as one example), they are most likely missing diagnosing girls, especially the higher functioning ones. Researchers tend to look for male behavior when diagnosing autism but are now realizing that there are major differences in the sexes. I say this as an autistic woman and the mother of two autistic children.

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#3.6 - Mon Jan 23, 2012 2:28 PM EST

My wife and I own a pediatric practice and while we don't force any parent to vaccinate their children, we do have them sign a waiver if they choose not to vaccinate. The physician who started the MMR controversy has been shown to be a liar and a fraud. It wouldn't be so bad if he weren't a "trusted" physician, much as Madoff was a "trusted" financial advisor. While I'm happy that your child is healthy, the world is seeing a rise in diseases such as Mumps, Measles and others that were all but eradicated because of responsible vaccination programs. This is a crime!! Our nation in particular has been blessed because most of our generation hasn't had to live through an epidemic like polio, as did our grand parents, so we make decisions based upon "light reading" via the internet, as opposed to decades of sickness, death and scientific research.

This doctor should be tried for murder in my opionion. Not only did he put the children at risk who's parents listened to him, but other children who may have not been current in their vaccinations were put at risk too. Its one thing to not want to vaccinate your child, but quite another if your child carries disease and infects another child. We are all connected and we are all responsible for one another.

I'm attaching the Reuters article showing that Dr. Andrew Wakefield, the liar and fraud who started the controversy for fame and fortune, has been disavowed and proven to be a fraud. His so called "study" wasn't a study at all. Read for your self dear lady. Once again, this isn't a put down to you or your family, but it amazes me how a lie will be half way around the world while the truth is still putting on its shoes.

http://uk.reuters.com/article/2011/01/06/us-autism-vaccines-idUKTRE7050J420110106

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#3.7 - Mon Jan 23, 2012 2:32 PM EST

So you're putting my child at risk because you fail to look it up and realize that it was just one guy that was lying about the vaccine?

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#3.8 - Mon Jan 23, 2012 2:54 PM EST

@Grandma o'7: no 3 m/o should be getting the MMR vaccine. If a pediatrician did give the vaccine at that age, they were wrong to do so. It's indicated for children aged 12 mo and older. Febrile seizures do indeed sometimes occur with or without vaccination. Occurrence of more than one would probably warrant referral to a neurologist. Never be afraid to seek a second opinion, but please don't blame vaccination for the problem.

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#3.9 - Mon Jan 23, 2012 3:45 PM EST

This doctor should be tried for murder in my opionion. Not only did he put the children at risk who's parents listened to him, but other children who may have not been current in their vaccinations were put at risk too.

More people died from measles in the 10 year period BEFORE Wakefield's paper than in the 10 years after.

So who exactly do you think he killed? And there are legitimate reasons to not get the MMR vaccines. It is known to cause convulsive febrile seizures. According to another doctor on this website that will get you a ticket for an unnecessary lumbar puncture spinal tap which results in unnecessary severe headaches for weeks in up to 40% of children. The MMR vaccine is not benign.

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#3.10 - Mon Jan 23, 2012 6:14 PM EST

I see distortion is your forte Robert. The first dose of MMR is recommended to be given 12 months of age or later. Again, Mr. Distortion that's where the good history and physical comes in. I guess you missed that during med school--oh, wait...

Like I've said three or four times before, nobody suggested performing LP's willy-nilly without a good reason. A febrile 12-month old who is having tonic clonic seizure activity, with a good story on history and physical meningitis is a candidate for an LP. If the kid recently had the MMR vaccination within 14 days, one might consider an adverse reaction to the vaccine.

But if it makes you feel good to pass along bad info, be my guest.

    #3.11 - Mon Jan 23, 2012 6:23 PM EST
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    I would take my twins in for their regular well baby visits and I'd have to bring my daughter in several times for her ears, each time the doctor either saying "she has an ear infection" or "there's a lot of fluid behind her eardrum." I would ask him "when do I consider getting her ear tubes?" He told me "not until she has them frequently. At 9 months old she'd already had 5 ear infections, so I'd decided enough was enough and took her to the ENT that did my sinus surgery. He said she was losing hearing in one of her ears and scheduled her for PE tubes the next week! Shortly after that she started having issues w/ vomiting and he would always say "it's a stomach bug." I took her to an allergist and she was allergic to eggs! That was the last straw, I shopped around for a new ped and the one we have is great!

      Reply#4 - Mon Jan 23, 2012 12:03 PM EST

      I fired mine. My son started having leg pains and couldn't put weight on his leg. He was 1. Took him to the pediatrician, they put him in the hospital. Ran all sorts of test, said he had a blood disorder. All the tests came back negative. He would need 6 weeks of IV antibiotics. I had mentioned to the doctor that he had woke up that morning with his leg stuck in between his crib bars. This was 31 years ago. The doctor told me I was wrong and that couldn't make him stop walking. Well the 3rd day my son was in the hospital. When the nurse came in to change his crib, my husband took him out of the crib, sat him in the baby chair they had there. When the nurse started leaving the room, my son stood up and ran after her. His leg was fine. The doctor came in and said I guess you were right, he could have pulled the muscle in his leg. I told him, he should listen to the parents once in awhile. We know our children. Never saw that doctor again. After that we found a great pediatrician. He would listen to us.

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      Reply#5 - Mon Jan 23, 2012 12:26 PM EST

      When they bully vaccines on you. Your pediatrician will take NO responsibility for your child if they are harmed by a vaccine they gave. Zero responsibility.

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      Reply#6 - Mon Jan 23, 2012 12:31 PM EST
      Comment author avatarJames-546195-1049965Expand Comment Comment collapsed by the community

      Doctors are paid by big pharma. Avoid them as much as possible if you can and just take care of yourself by eating well and exercising if possible.

      We also have trained doctors to have a god complex and they are all knowing and always right. Never seen such an industry based on guess work so much.

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      Reply#7 - Mon Jan 23, 2012 12:47 PM EST

      >James ... Yes some are paid off by big pharma. However, what are you going to do when your in a motor vehicle collision and your head is cracked open?

      Seeing a pediatrician is important, but like in everything else there are bad pediatricians and excellent ones.

      How about given the news story title actual legitimate reasons be given:

      (Not in any order)

      1. They don't listen to you or your child.

      2. They are overbooked and too rushed on regular occasion to spend the time needed.

      3. They lack the competence to do what they should and NO that doesn't mean because the internet knows better!

      4. Their staff is horrible (loses records, doesn't return calls, treats you poorly, messes up insurance claims, etc.) but tell them first.

      5. They don't interact well with children.

      Unfortunately, one of the biggest reasons people change pediatricians has little to do with like or dislike but is because of a change insurance plans and the new plan does not include their pediatrician.

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      #7.1 - Mon Jan 23, 2012 1:16 PM EST

      That is the biggest lie ever conceived of James. Big Pharma does NOT pay doctors. In fact if anything, its the other way around. Doctors have to purchase vaccines and some medications FROM big pharma, or write prescriptions for them. If anything Doctors who belong to buying groups, MAY get discounts for purchasing in volume. There is a law called the Sunshine Law ( look it up) that covers big Pharma even buying lunch for a doctor.

      One can eat and excercise all they want but that isn't going to change environmental factors ( such as pollution and 2nd hand cigarette smoke) and genetics. For example, most children with asthma are born with the trait. Environmental things such as smoke, pet dander, pollution, roach feces, and even certain foods can set them off and they will need to be treated. No amount of diet and excersize is going to cure them. I'd hate to be your kid. Such ignorance is dangerous indeed.

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      #7.2 - Mon Jan 23, 2012 2:38 PM EST

      James: If big pharma was paying me off I wouldn't have lost 10 grand last year buying vaccines that I don't get completely compensated for. I wouldn't have enough debt to pay two house payments every month. I'm not asking for more money, but I don't get paid off. I love taking care of kids, which is why I do this job, so please check your facts before you open your mouth.

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      #7.3 - Mon Jan 23, 2012 3:49 PM EST

      James: If big pharma was paying me off I wouldn't have lost 10 grand last year buying vaccines that I don't get completely compensated for.

      Does that give you an incentive to sell more of them?

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      #7.4 - Mon Jan 23, 2012 6:16 PM EST
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      My ex-pediatrician had the most condescending nursing staff. One nurse just looked at people like they were insects. I had a mom friend that left that same pediatrician for the same reason.

      I also left because my daughter had horrid reflux and would not eat. I asked for alternative food source information for infants and I got the response, "Get it in her."

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      Reply#8 - Mon Jan 23, 2012 12:48 PM EST

      Yep...I tried to get an appt to get my son in for a really really bad yeast rash infection...and the soonest they could get me in was 2 weeks. They didn't even care. So I took him to the clinic, and he had a staph infection on top of a really BAD cash of yeast rash. If I had waited, he could have died. I am firing my son's other DR because when I took him in for built up wax in his ear, the dr said it would come out and didn't do anything, and it didn't and I was charged $120 for the visit.

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      Reply#9 - Mon Jan 23, 2012 12:49 PM EST

      My baby had awful diaper rash and a doctor gave us a cream to put on it. Two days later, the rash looked even worse and she was running a fever, so we took her to the ER because it was a Sunday. I recall a nurse telling us that diaper rash was not an emergency and that we should go to our regular clinic on Monday.

      However, a nice young Navy corpsman looked at my baby's bottom and saw how awful it was. He went back and told the doctor that my baby should be seen, despite what the nurse had said.

      The doctor determined that yes indeed, my daughter's diaper rash had developed a staph infection (causing the fever), and that she needed antibiotics (oral and topical) immediately. I am grateful that the corpsman stuck up for us despite the nurse blowing us off.

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      #9.1 - Mon Jan 23, 2012 4:11 PM EST
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      One of my friends made the best comment about a pediatrician we fired - "She was only qualified to treat 'well' babies ". Sadly, it took me a while to fire her as I kept thinking it was me and not the doctor. It was the doctor.

      Next pediatrician was wonderful - not especially tactful or especially social ( not many how are you and smiles -butter up Mom stuff) but well qualified and willing to listen and always thoughtful. I traded a social hour and wrong answers for a serious but always right pediatrician -he spent the time actually working.

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      Reply#10 - Mon Jan 23, 2012 12:57 PM EST

      I hear you about that one! Likewise, some are better at treating only those that are very ill. My pregnancy was high risk because of my health issues, and it became more complicated when the baby (who turned out to be my now-32 y.o. son) was not developing properly. We interviewed and engaged a pediatrician before my son was born so we could have someone standing by in case some of the feared outcomes came to pass; this pediatrician had been chief resident in the NICU. Fortunately, my son was born healthy so we didn't need the dr's specialized NICU experience.

      But when my son became ill when he was 10 months old, the pediatrician failed to recognize the seriousness of the issues my son was having. Since my son was born healthy, the pediatrician mentally catalogued him as a "healthy baby," and decided I was just an hysterical new mother. But that wasn't the case.

      My son finally had to be hospitalized (dehydration from near constant vomiting and diarrhea), so I stayed in his hospital room and took the opportunity to get input from the interns and residents. Had a number of battles with the pediatrician to get him to listen to me and took actions I thought needed to be taken. When the symptoms reappeared a few days after my son was discharged from the hospital, we went right back to the pediatrician's office without waiting for an apppointment. Our pediatrican wasn't there, so I had the chance to speak to another Dr within the practice who didn't have the pre-conceived notion that my son was "healthy" and that his problems were all in my head. After speaking with me and examining my son, this Dr said yes, my son was definitely having problems. We fired our old pediatrician right then and there, and switched to his colleague.

      Numerous tests, trial and error sessions, and weeks later, we learned that my son had numerous severe food allergies, plus celiac disease and resultant failure to thrive -- at 15 months old, he weighed only 17 pounds -- and his immune system was compromised because of everything his body was undergoing because of food that was literally poisoning him.

      I learned that you have to be your child's advocate and insist that you be heard, if your gut tells you something is wrong. Don't stop until you get the answers, no matter what anyone with an M.D. after his name tells you.

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      #10.1 - Mon Jan 23, 2012 3:39 PM EST
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      Our first pediatrician retired, so we were assigned a new one. He was just horrid. My son had warts all over his feet, and they kept telling me that they would go away on their own (which, of course, they didn't). I wanted to take him to my podiatrist to get him treated, and they refused to sign the referral.

      My son's first pediatrician was just awesome. The first clue that my son had an ear infection was always that he woke up during the night (he was a sound sleeper and didn't wake up otherwise). The first time it happened, the nurse told me I was wrong...and then we ended up in their office with a child screaming from the pain two days later. From then on, I always got in the same day when I called.

      That "listening" thing makes a difference.

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      Reply#11 - Mon Jan 23, 2012 12:59 PM EST

      Robert,

      Not to rock the boat. I'd have to calculate the NNT from a meta analysis and it would take a little while, but really the NNT is irrelevant. Not performing a lumbar puncture on a 3-36 month old with suspected bacterial meningitis is malpractice, and many doctors in this country perform defensive medicine, particularly those in busy ERs. We don't actually know the entire circumstance behind the incident, so there very well might have been an indication for LP. It was unnecessary in this instance because the child luckily did not have bacterial meningitis.

      However, you are correct. Children with simple febrile seizures and no meningeal signs generally do not need LP. A study of 410 patients (link below) indicated that children with bacterial meningitis always presented with some other neurological or meningeal sign, most frequently stiff neck (60-80%), so a savvy ER doc would monitor or look for other occult causes of fever (UTI, pneumonia, etc) before performing an LP.

      In conclusion, NNT or not, febrile seizures can be managed defensively and appropriately with LP. If the doctor had not suggested it, and the child died of BM, and the parents sued, they would easily have won. I agree with MarineDoc in saying the mother should be fired over joking about their dog in a situation where the doctor needed more information to make a appropriate assessment and instead chose to be uncooperative, hostile, and probably made the physician practice even more defensive medicine.

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      #11.1 - Mon Jan 23, 2012 5:01 PM EST
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      When my son was one year old he had a fever spike from 100 degrees to 105 degrees. When I put him in a cool bath he had a seizure lasting about two seconds. I took him to the hospital and his pediatrician wanted to do a spinal tap on him that would have been really painful. I refused and she tried to scare me by demanding to know if any family had epilepsy. I told her "Henry had Grand Mal Seizures". Boy was she happy to hear that - she then said "who is Henry" and I informed her he was my parents' Standard Poodle. We were done at that point. My father-in-law, also a pediatrician, said that these types of seizures were not uncommon in small children when there was a fever spike and to just make sure he was given something in the future to keep the temperature down.

        #12 - Mon Jan 23, 2012 1:03 PM EST

        Your child had a fever as high as 105 degrees Fahrenheit, and was convulsing, and you thought making a stupid joke about a goddamn dog was appropriate at the time?

        You should have been fired as a parent.

        The pediatrician was absolutely correct in wanting to perform a lumbar puncture (spinal tap), because your kid could have had meningitis or encephalitis!! It has a mortality rate of as high as 30% depending on age, and etiology.

        This isn't a story you should be sharing....if anything you should keep it to yourself, and never tell anyone your father-in-law suggested otherwise--for his sake. It realy makes you sound stupid and reckless.

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        #12.1 - Mon Jan 23, 2012 1:21 PM EST

        Seymour - MarineDoc is right. I would have let him do the spinal tap. You were very lucky your child didn't have meningitis.

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        #12.2 - Mon Jan 23, 2012 1:45 PM EST

        Marine Doc, the invasive painful spinal tap was unnecessary. That was the fact. You can say what if and play CYA medicine all day.

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        #12.3 - Mon Jan 23, 2012 2:31 PM EST

        Robert,

        And you know it was unnecessary how? From the "excellent" history the patients parent gave about the Poodle? Pain is temporary, death is permanent--and painless.

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        #12.4 - Mon Jan 23, 2012 2:35 PM EST

        I guess the new trend is if a child has a fever with convulsion then they get a mandatory spinal tap.

        What's the NNT on that one Doc?

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        #12.5 - Mon Jan 23, 2012 2:37 PM EST

        MarineDoc, you know damn well that febrile seizures in a child that young is extremely common. And if the child didn't have any of the other symptoms of meningitis (photophobia, vomiting, headache or the baby was altered) why would you put a baby through a painful tap? Fever spikes in kids that age are very, very common. Tapping them for it is a very unnecessary procedure that has serious risks involved. I think you owe that mom an apology.

        • 2 votes
        #12.6 - Mon Jan 23, 2012 2:40 PM EST

        The problem is you never know. Where the pediatrician was covering all bases another may have decided to wait and see. When you take your child to a hospital they tend to start the tests to rule almost everything reasonably out vs. a pediatrician's office will often go somewhat more conservatively (although less so these days). The two pediatricians may perform similar tasks but function in different modes of treatment. The hospital by nature is much more aggressive/crisis oriented.

        Had it been meningitis or something else and the spinal tap not been offered most parents would have been screaming about how the incompetent pediatrician didn't catch it and sued.

        • 4 votes
        #12.7 - Mon Jan 23, 2012 2:44 PM EST

        Robert,

        A LP puncture for a 12 month-old child was a reasonable suggestion to rule out meningitis. But please...don't take my word for it.

        http://pediatrics.aappublications.org/content/127/2/389.full.pdf+html

        Why would I put a child through an LP? Because I think it's better than being in the ICU with meningitis.

        • 4 votes
        #12.8 - Mon Jan 23, 2012 2:50 PM EST

        And you know it was unnecessary how? From the "excellent" history the patients parent gave about the Poodle?

        The child didn't have have encephalitis. The lumbar puncture was unnecessary.

        Pain is temporary, death is permanent--and painless.

        Enough with the rhetoric.

        What is the NNT for lumbar punctures to prevent encephalitis base on the symptoms of fever and convulsion?

        • 2 votes
        #12.9 - Mon Jan 23, 2012 2:51 PM EST

        Yes, enough with the rhetoric, "Dr. Robert". What would you have done?

        12 month old child comes into the ED febrile to 105F with a parental report of seizure activity. Parent is not cooperative and is instead giving the medical history of her mothers @!$%#ing dog.

        LP is a reasonable diagnostic test.

        • 4 votes
        #12.10 - Mon Jan 23, 2012 2:54 PM EST

        What is the number needed to treat using lumbar puncture to prevent ONE case of encephaltis complications?

        As a doctor you should know this number. It's called evidence based medicine.

        • 2 votes
        #12.11 - Mon Jan 23, 2012 2:56 PM EST

        You are going to try to talk about EBM? Tell me what the best test is for meningitis in that age group?

        • 2 votes
        #12.12 - Mon Jan 23, 2012 3:04 PM EST

        If a child gets the MMR vaccine and goes into a convulsive febrile seizure do you automatically perform a Lumbar puncture or do you down play the seizure and fever?

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        #12.13 - Mon Jan 23, 2012 3:07 PM EST

        So, when a 12-month old unvaccinated child arrives with fever to 105, having seizures (same symptoms as the kid above, but unbeknownst to YOU, she has a pretty severe case of bacterial meningitis). What test are you going to order? How long are you going to wait?

        What's the natural history of bacterial meningitis?

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        #12.14 - Mon Jan 23, 2012 3:13 PM EST

        Nothing is automatic Robert. Don't try to confuse the issue, answer the question.

          #12.15 - Mon Jan 23, 2012 3:14 PM EST

          Hello? Robert?

            #12.16 - Mon Jan 23, 2012 3:23 PM EST

            Do you understand what NNT means?

            If you you were to perform spinal taps on every convulsive febrile child(what you would call a patient) how many would you have to perform to prevent one death from encephalitis/meningitis?

            How come you don't know this? Are you an evidence based doctor?

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            #12.17 - Mon Jan 23, 2012 4:28 PM EST

            I guess you neglected to follow the link to the American Academy of Pediatrics Recommendations on Febrile Seizures. Nobody has suggested performing lumbar puncture on EVERY child with a febrile seizure. Children 12 months and younger aren't able to describe their symptoms very well. Her child was 12 months old.

            Robert, let me ask you again. What is the best test for meningitis in a 12-month old? What test would you order to rule out bacterial meningitis in a 12-month old? What happens to a child with untreated bacterial meningitis?

            The practice of medicine is not merely quoting statistics. I hate to break it to you, but physicians aren't repositories for every bit of statistical minutia in the literature. If I want to know the NNT of anything, I would go look it up. Getting a good history, physical examination, and using clinical judgement is what's important.

            Now, I've demonstrated that from this story, the pediatrician's course of action was appropriate. If the child did have bacterial meningitis and the parent refused care, we would have been reading a post about how a pediatrician let her baby die.

            You've been perseverating on NNT, so if you'd like to have a discussion on levels of evidence, I'm all for it. However, you've failed to prove that doing nothing is the appropriate course of action. Again, answer my question from #12.14 or move along.

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            #12.18 - Mon Jan 23, 2012 4:49 PM EST

            I posted my reply in the wrong section, its above, but here is the article I forgot to attach, if anyone is interested.

              #12.19 - Mon Jan 23, 2012 5:13 PM EST

              I guess you neglected to follow the link to the American Academy of Pediatrics Recommendations on Febrile Seizures.

              No, I read it. There was no data in it. Just policy recommendations.

              However, you've failed to prove that doing nothing is the appropriate course of action

              Not doing a spinal tap on a little baby IS the appropriate course for almost all causes of febrile seizures.

              I take it that you don't exactly know what the evidence is.

              Getting a good history, physical examination, and using clinical judgement is what's important.

              True. And this should lead to very littlle use of spinal tap for fevers . But clinical judgement is clouded by a policy that calls for spinal taps in little infants.

              If you perform 1000 unnecessary spinal taps and cause 500 excruciating headaches on a little baby that doesn't have meningitis what happens to you? Nothing.

              What happens if you miss one case of RARE meningitis? you get sued.

              Do you think this type of personal risk benefit analysis plays into your clinical judgment. Harm 500 to prevent one case of encephalitis.

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              #12.20 - Mon Jan 23, 2012 5:17 PM EST

              Good point. Although, I don't necessarily think it's "defensive". It's the right test, and won't delay proper treatment. I see a small child who is sick and unable to communicate with me, with a small, but significant chance of mortality. Of course nobody should rush to perform an invasive procedure without a good reason. As the treating physician is not here to tell us what his history and physical examination revealed, I like to believe a well trained pediatrician would order the appropriate test. I don't know anyone who jumps at the chance to perform an LP on a squirming, sick, 1-year old.

              And then there's the small possibility of the organism being Neisseria meningitis...

                #12.21 - Mon Jan 23, 2012 5:37 PM EST

                So...you would do nothing in the case that I presented? So, you would let a small child die of a treatable disease, because you don't want to numb a child's back and poke him with a 22-gauge needle? And what are you talking about giving every patient an LP? We've been over this. You are worried about giving a kid a headache, when I'm thinking about keeping a kid from dying, and treating the right disease.

                You know what Robert, when you have the responsibility making the right choice in a potentially life or death situation, give me a buzz eh?

                EBM does not mean punching information into a computer algorithm and waiting for an answer. And unfortunately patients are not mass produced widgets with identical working parts. There are variables that require clinical judgement. Having said that, if you are interested in the statistics I invite you to summarize the 23 references at the end.

                  #12.22 - Mon Jan 23, 2012 5:48 PM EST
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                  I have not fired a pediatrician (ours is GREAT!) but I have fired doctors for myself. One of the doctors I've fired is a specialists in a TEACHING hospital. She always behaved as if I were an imposition on her time when I would come in for an appointment. I've since gone to a "rate your doctor" website and found out that I was not the only one who fired her for exactly the same reason.

                  People in general do NOT understand that the doctors work FOR YOU. If they aren't giving your issues (or your children's issues) the attention that you feel the issues deserve, you SHOULD fire them immediately. They are not gods and they are fallible.

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                  Reply#13 - Mon Jan 23, 2012 1:08 PM EST

                  Agreed. I'm a pediatrician, and frankly the therapeutic relationship works much better if you feel I'm doing the right thing. If you disagree with your doc, or your child's doc, say so. Have an open dialogue. I'll be the first to admit that I'm not always right; no doctor is. However, understand also that just because you read something on the internet does not give you a medical degree.

                  Generally if a parent wants to try something or thinks the diagnosis is something other than what I say, I'm willing to entertain the possibility unless I think it's going to be harmful to a child.

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                  #13.1 - Mon Jan 23, 2012 4:43 PM EST

                  Children can be wonderful patients, and the satisfaction of watching well children grow into adults over the years must be rewarding. Having dealt with the occasional overbearing parent who studied medicine at the University of Google...I wouldn't wish on my enemies. Thank you for having what seems like endless patience. I couldn't do it...especially when the discussion turns to vaccinations.

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                  #13.2 - Mon Jan 23, 2012 4:57 PM EST
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                  Fired my daughter's first pediatrician when after a year he couldn't pronounce her name, and didn't spend more than 5 minutes in the examining room.

                  The second pediatrician was fired when he kept saying that my daughter had an over-developed gag reflex. She threw up whenever she cried. Turned out she actually had asthma.

                  The third was fired when she claimed my daughter was having psychosomatic symptoms. A different doctor diagnosed her with whooping cough.

                  Too many times doctors assume that the parent is an idiot. I'm sure many are, but don't discount the information given by a child's primary care giver. We are with the child all the time. You see them for only 15 minutes. Who is going to be able to describe symptoms better?

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                  Reply#14 - Mon Jan 23, 2012 1:25 PM EST

                  We are not even a pediatric practice but we receive complaints all the time that impact a child's mental health or other issues. A few examples; A pre-teen diagnosed with a eating disorder and actually had Chron's disease. A child with memory and other impairments that the pediatricians said was ADHD when in fact it was lyme's disease. This is the effect that managed care is having on the quality of healthcare in the US. We are out of network providers and would never join a network. For all too many here in the US the quality of healthcare is dependent on what you can afford.

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                  Reply#15 - Mon Jan 23, 2012 1:38 PM EST

                  William, I agree with the fact that managed care is seriously impacting the quality of the health care that people receive. Over the years, I have seen the quality of care deteriorate at the practice we use - and I firmly believe it is due to the fact that they have to schedule so many patients every day to squeeze out a profit, that they can barely keep their patients straight any longer.

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                  #15.1 - Mon Jan 23, 2012 1:48 PM EST
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                  (1) Any pediatrician that does not treat your child aggressively when they are sick, is wasting your time and watching your child suffer when they should not have to. We don't wait to see if the sun is out tomorrow or if the wind blows from the south to treat an illness. (2) If the pediatrician pays more attention to themself during an exam than they do your child, find someone who cares !(3) If you are uncomfortable with your doctor, common sense says get someone you like and can trust. All this is pretty simple !

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                  Reply#16 - Mon Jan 23, 2012 1:56 PM EST

                  I agree if you're uncomfortable seek a second opinion or switch docs.

                  However, I can tell you I see a lot of kids who have colds and the parents want antibiotics. I wish I would make the kids better, but there is no 'aggressive treatment' that's going to work. I don't benefit from not treating children, but I also don't have a magical antiviral that makes colds go away. If I had a cure for the common cold I'd have a nobel prize and be able to retire. If I could make stomach flu go away I'd give out free samples for Christmas.

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                  #16.1 - Mon Jan 23, 2012 4:50 PM EST
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                  I fired mine when my son was 15 months old. He was sick from day one. Constantly throwing up, coughing, runny nose, skin looked horrible. Constant ear infections. He was losing weight also. I was in the doctor every 2 weeks it seemed. One nurse said to me, "Is this your first child? You're always here." I said, "No, he's not. There is something wrong with him and you need to figure out what."

                  Doc gave me meds for GERD but they weren't helping. He said, "Are you sure you're giving it to him?" Like I enjoy being thrown up on 5 times a day. Every appt I told him that he was coughing. The doc said he didn't hear anything. He had 10 ear infections before he was 1. I asked the doc about sending me to a specialist or Children's Hospital. He said there was no need. My gut said I should change, but to be honest, I felt like I would be cheating on the doc if I did. Then one day it clicked, my son is getting worse and this doctor isn't helping.

                  I made an appt at National Jewish Health and Children's Hospital in Denver. Luckily I had a PPO and didn't need a referral. But I had to wait about 1.5 months to get in with no referral. National Jewish did a chest x-ray and found acute bronchiolitis. He also has asthma now. Children's did multiple tests, barium swallows, endoscopies, allergy tests. My son was diagnosed with Eosionophilic Esophagitis (an auto-immune gastrointestinal disease that elevates the white blood cell count in the esophagus and damages the tissue), and 10 food allergies. He also needed tubes in his ears. He was placed in occupational feeding therapy because at 18 months, he stilled gagged on purees.

                  My son now has a team of doctors at Children's for his disease and is doing so well that most people who don't know us have no idea that he has a rare incurable disease. If my doc would've just put his ego away and sent me down the road to Children's Hospital and National Jewish, my son wouldn't have suffered as long as he did. I wish I would've gotten stronger sooner, but I'm glad I finally woke up and fired his pediatrician.

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                  Reply#17 - Mon Jan 23, 2012 1:58 PM EST

                  I fired two doctors in the first 7 months of my son's life and felt absolutely justified in both! The first one was gone by the first week and the second one by the 7th month. The second one kept trying to convince us that he was pre-asthmatic and routinely prescribed 6 or 7 asthma meds, including a nebulizer. She also sent him for chest x-rays twice, which were always negative. I never filled the prescriptions. What the kid had was allergies and what he needed was Allegra. Even his allergies are lessening as he gets older and he's never had anything remotely close to an asthma attack. I think she was getting kick-backs from the pharma companies and/or the nebulizer company. We are very happy with who he sees now.

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                  Reply#18 - Mon Jan 23, 2012 2:04 PM EST

                  At that age, your child probably did have reactive airway disease (likely what was meant by "pre-asthma"), and the inhalers were probably appropriate.

                  http://emedicine.medscape.com/article/800119-overview#a0104

                  As children get older, they usually grow out of it. The great thing is most kids who wheeze at that age won't progress to having asthma. The inhalers help the child to breath.

                  Chronic lack of oxygen isn't very good for the child's development...so not filling the prescriptions aren't going to hurt you, but your child might suffer.

                  http://www.pediatricsdigest.mobi/content/114/3/805.full

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                  #18.1 - Mon Jan 23, 2012 2:27 PM EST

                  You do not even have the whole health history but in every post you make you defend the doctor and his treatment as if he or she could not possibly have failed this family. Doctors are not without fault and do make misstakes, continuing to insist makes you look like a doctor that believes it impossible for the patient to be in the right. You are not doing your profession any favours. One of the first things mentioned in a lot of medical books for pediatric patients is that you should always pay attention to the mothers "instincts" (she knows her child) Unless that changed in the recent med books. Married to an old doctor without god complex

                    #18.2 - Tue Jan 24, 2012 3:40 AM EST

                    He did the same thing with the febrile child. He agreed to ordering a spinal tap on a child with a fever because he had a visceral response to the parent. The child was fine. The test would have been unnecessary. He attacked the parent and defended the doctor based. This showedd bias. He tried to justify his emotional response as "clinical judgement" but yet couldn't give the evidence of the NNT.

                    I'm afraid this happens too often. Overtesting means overtreatment and overHARM.

                      #18.3 - Tue Jan 24, 2012 11:51 AM EST

                      j smith,

                      So...let's review.

                      1. This woman complained that two chest x-rays were "always negative". CXR aren't simply positive or negative. They give all sorts of information. But for "asthma" (which really can't be reliably diagnosed until after about 3 years of age), a chest x-ray isn't very useful as a initial diagnostic tool, but rather it's used to look for complications, or other reasons the patient is having difficulty breathing.

                      2. The infant was prescribe "asthma" medications. These medications such as salmeterol, albuterol etc. relieve acute bronchospasm by relaxing smooth muscle in the airway...helping the child to breath. Prescribing them does not mean the child has asthma. Medications like ipratroprium (Atrovent) helps decrease secretions, and decreases the muscle tone in the small airways.--helping the child to move air more easily--also does not mean the child has asthma. There are others like cromolyn that stabilizes mast cells that have been sensitized to allergens. Corticosteroids, leukotriene inhibitors and many others.

                      Mom didn't even try any of these. So mom says the kid had allergies...which made me chuckle a bit. Why? The pathophysiology of pediatric airway disease:

                      Pathophysiology (from http://emedicine.medscape.com/article/800119-overview#a0104)

                      Numerous environmental stimuli induce an allergen-antibody interaction, causing a release of mediators that create airway inflammation. Airway inflammation is the primary factor responsible for smooth muscle hyperresponsiveness, edema, and increased mucous production, resulting in increased work of breathing. A complex interaction occurs between inflammatory cells and airway epithelium. Mediators released from mast cells induce edema, mucous secretion, and bronchospasm. These mediators include histamine, tryptase, heparin, leukotrienes, platelet-activating factor, cytokines, interleukins, and tumor necrosis factor. The other inflammatory cells (ie, eosinophils, lymphocytes) also release mediators and create a toxic environment to respiratory epithelial cells.

                      In infants and children younger than 3 years, the intrapulmonary airways are so small that any lower airway infection results in diminished airway function. Other anatomical factors, such as poor collateral ventilation, decreased elastic recoil pressure, and a partially developed diaphragm, may predispose the very young child to respiratory compromise.

                      Speculation exists that all infants are born with highly responsive airways. Increased immunoglobulin E (IgE) levels have been found in those younger than 2 years. A decrease in airway responsiveness may be associated with environmental allergens, viral respiratory diseases, and hereditary factors.

                      Rhinovirus infections are an important contributor to asthma exacerbations in children. Hence, therapies against rhinovirus might reduce the risk of severe exacerbations.[3]

                      Fever and bronchospasm are not associated with a more severe clinical course. In fact, fever as a response to infection may have a beneficial effect and can be seen as a good prognostic indicator.[4]

                      Hygiene hypothesis suggests that early exposure to infections and allergens might protect children from developing asthma later in life because of improved immune system.[4]

                      Breastfeeding might protect children younger than 24 months of age against recurrent wheezing. The cytokine, TGF-B1, in human milk may have both suppression and enhancement functions in the immune reaction.

                      Exposure to maternal environmental tobacco smoke during pregnancy or the first year appears to predispose children to reactive airway disease.

                      But, like I said many children grow out this disease--my own son included. The difference is I actually LIKE oxygen rich blood to get to the brains of developing children.

                      Paying attention to mothers "instincts" are fine. Blindly following "gut feelings" and "instincts" isn't medicine. If understanding the pathophysiology of a disease is having a god-complex...then please I prefer to be called Dr. Odinn.

                        #18.4 - Tue Jan 24, 2012 12:53 PM EST

                        Robert LOL..."emotional response"...don't you have some backs to crack?

                          #18.5 - Tue Jan 24, 2012 12:53 PM EST
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                          Had a family practitioner/pediatrician I fired when my oldest was 2. I was concerned about speaking problems with my son, who could already identify visually every letter of the alphabet and who had proved he could read the words STOP (thank you Sesame Street) and Kroger (he could identify the label on canned and boxed foods). I was very concerned that he had a hearing problem. The doctor said my son was "slow." Before I could find a new doctor, my son got sick, so I took him back. Doctor prescribed penicillin. When my son broke out with large itchy welts and started running a high fever a day later (on a weekend), I took him off the medicine and called the doctor that my son had had an allergic reaction. The doctor, sight unseen, diagnosed it as measles even though my son was current on vaccinations and said I must keep him on the penicillin. I never gave my son another dose. New doctor confirmed both a hearing problem and the penicillin allergy.

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                          Reply#19 - Mon Jan 23, 2012 2:07 PM EST

                          أنا لا تجلب أطفالي إلى الأطباء.

                            Reply#20 - Mon Jan 23, 2012 2:07 PM EST

                            اشعر بالاسف لأطفالك

                              #20.1 - Mon Jan 23, 2012 2:29 PM EST
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