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    29
    Jan
    2010
    11:59am, EST

    Would you let your child participate in a beauty pageant?

    Some people feel participating in pageants can be a great learning experience for their children, while others think it's outrageous and wrong. Would you let your child join the beauty brigade?

    Results with 20 short comments
    Total of 347 votes - click on the "Display Comments" bar below to sort comments

    78.1%
    No. Beauty pageants objectify women and children and I don't want my child caught up in that world.
    271 votes
    21.9%
    Yes. If she expressed an interest. Pageants can be a fun and exciting experience and as long as my child's having fun I don't see any harm in it.
    76 votes
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    Yes. If she expressed an interest. Pageants can be a fun and exciting experience and as long as my child's having fun I don't see any harm in it.

    I think that after age 16 a young girl could handle a beauty pageant and it might help to expand her confidence and self expression.

    • 1 vote
    #1
     - Jacqueline S. ParmerNetkin
     - 12:21 pm EST on Fri Jan 29, 2010
    No. Beauty pageants objectify women and children and I don't want my child caught up in that world.

    Especially not one of those makeup ones. What parents do to this kids is creepy and they should not live vicariously. Get counseling folks

    • 1 vote
    #2
     - phoenix316
     - 12:34 pm EST on Fri Jan 29, 2010
    Yes. If she expressed an interest. Pageants can be a fun and exciting experience and as long as my child's having fun I don't see any harm in it.

    My daughter has done them for years. It has taught her how to present herself in public, and humanitarian issues working for her platform!

    • 1 vote
    #3
     - Sandy-40
     - 1:15 pm EST on Fri Jan 29, 2010
    No. Beauty pageants objectify women and children and I don't want my child caught up in that world.

    My girl won most talented,but I decided that too much focus is on looks. Self esteem comes from the inside not waiting on judges' comments.

      #4
       - sara-i know who i am
       - 1:34 pm EST on Fri Jan 29, 2010
      No. Beauty pageants objectify women and children and I don't want my child caught up in that world.

      Absolulutely not! There is too much emphasis on so-called "beauty" as it is. I've suffered from low self esteem all my life as a result.

        #5
         - motherlovemelon
         - 2:48 pm EST on Fri Jan 29, 2010
        No. Beauty pageants objectify women and children and I don't want my child caught up in that world.

        Absolutely NOT! She is entitled to having a childhood, not being forced to grow up and wearing as much makeup at age 5 as a prostitute does

          #6
           - Hot-in-Miami
           - 2:52 pm EST on Fri Jan 29, 2010
          No. Beauty pageants objectify women and children and I don't want my child caught up in that world.

          Two words.... Carrie Prejean.. IE The oh so nice pageant girl from celebrity drug AND sex rehab! Gives girls a false sense of themselves.

            #7
             - cverboort
             - 4:23 pm EST on Fri Jan 29, 2010
            No. Beauty pageants objectify women and children and I don't want my child caught up in that world.

            NO. Some pageants ran well can build confidence & professional skills for adults but kids should be kids & learn these things from parents.

              #8
               - Playall88
               - 4:58 pm EST on Fri Jan 29, 2010
              No. Beauty pageants objectify women and children and I don't want my child caught up in that world.

              i did once and i changed my mind. i did not like the way the girls had to be made up to impress the judges!

                #9
                 - redneckwoman62
                 - 7:34 am EST on Sat Jan 30, 2010
                No. Beauty pageants objectify women and children and I don't want my child caught up in that world.

                Usually women that have no chance of beauty themselves subject their daughters looks to the scrutiny of others. Get your own life, moms!

                • 1 vote
                #10
                 - HelloKitty-1288125
                 - 12:53 pm EST on Sat Jan 30, 2010
                No. Beauty pageants objectify women and children and I don't want my child caught up in that world.

                I'm sure there is some good from them, but so many kids & people in general have HUGE self esteem issues, I think this may only add to them

                  #11
                   - lisab_ffemt
                   - 4:07 pm EST on Sat Jan 30, 2010
                  No. Beauty pageants objectify women and children and I don't want my child caught up in that world.

                  It's a sad reflection on our society when from birth, aesthetics are valued more than intellect.

                  • 1 vote
                  #12
                   - fugitive247
                   - 8:02 pm EST on Sat Jan 30, 2010
                  No. Beauty pageants objectify women and children and I don't want my child caught up in that world.

                  I don't think it's completely wrong, it should have limits. The makeup, wardrobe, etc is way too much. It's too much stress for a child.

                    #13
                     - meli1371
                     - 11:25 am EST on Sun Jan 31, 2010
                    Yes. If she expressed an interest. Pageants can be a fun and exciting experience and as long as my child's having fun I don't see any harm in it.

                    I would allow my daughter to join beauty pageants, as long as it is clean, and would only showcase talents and wit.

                      #14
                       - bellatrixv
                       - 1:40 pm EST on Sun Jan 31, 2010
                      Yes. If she expressed an interest. Pageants can be a fun and exciting experience and as long as my child's having fun I don't see any harm in it.

                      But, I will say, too many stage-mothers do take the fun out of it for the child--if you have any doubts, watch "Little Miss Perfect" on TLC

                      • 1 vote
                      #15
                       - Lkessler
                       - 3:12 pm EST on Sun Jan 31, 2010
                      No. Beauty pageants objectify women and children and I don't want my child caught up in that world.

                      No, I would never allow my child to participate in pageants. I don't agree with the message(s) it puts out there for our daughters. Hek

                        #16
                         - Hekofawoman
                         - 9:44 pm EST on Sun Jan 31, 2010
                        Yes. If she expressed an interest. Pageants can be a fun and exciting experience and as long as my child's having fun I don't see any harm in it.

                        I've seen girls who really enjoyed their life in pageants. I would screen contests and judges, however. There are some not fit to judge.

                        • 1 vote
                        #17
                         - River-239955
                         - 9:53 pm EST on Sun Jan 31, 2010
                        No. Beauty pageants objectify women and children and I don't want my child caught up in that world.

                        This is not healthy for these kid's. Let them go out side and build a play house or something.

                          #18
                           - Slinger-958418
                           - 10:18 pm EST on Sun Jan 31, 2010
                          Yes. If she expressed an interest. Pageants can be a fun and exciting experience and as long as my child's having fun I don't see any harm in it.

                          My daughters do pageants yearly that are based on personality/confidence - no makeup allowed. No beauty pageants though!

                            #19
                             - 2BeautifulGirls
                             - 11:01 am EST on Mon Feb 1, 2010
                            No. Beauty pageants objectify women and children and I don't want my child caught up in that world.

                            There are lots of ways to boost self esteem -theater, dance, speech/debate, community service - w/o being paraded in front of judges.

                              #20
                               - CordeliaPotter
                               - 12:47 pm EST on Mon Feb 1, 2010

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